COMPASSIONATE INQUIRY
Rediscover Your True Self With Compassionate Inquiry
In a world that often pulls us away from our essence, it’s easy to feel disconnected from who we truly are. Over time, we build walls, adopt coping mechanisms, and create stories to protect ourselves. These strategies may have served us once, but now they hold us back. Compassionate Inquiry offers a path to gently uncover these patterns, helping you reconnect with your authentic self and live a life of freedom and clarity.
This is part of Step 2 of the Unapologetic Toolkit — Clutch Bag
WHAT IS COMPASSIONATE INQUIRY
Compassionate Inquiry is a powerful yet gentle therapeutic approach developed by Dr. Gabor Maté. It combines mindfulness, body awareness, and deep introspection to help uncover the unconscious beliefs and stories that shape your behaviours, emotions, and experiences. Together, we’ll explore what’s beneath the surface—those hidden patterns that no longer serve you—and create space for healing and long lasting change.
At its heart, this approach is rooted in the belief that your true self is whole, peaceful, and resilient. Through Compassionate Inquiry, we peel back the layers of protection you’ve built over time so you can reconnect with your inner wisdom and live life on your own terms.
WHAT TO EXPECT IN OUR 1:1 SESSIONS
Each session is a collaborative experience tailored to your unique needs. Here’s what you can expect:
A Safe Space: A compassionate and non-judgmental environment where you feel seen and heard.
Present-Moment Awareness: We’ll tune into your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations to uncover what’s really going on beneath the surface.
Uncovering Patterns: Together, we’ll identify the unconscious beliefs and coping mechanisms that may be holding you back.
Reconnecting with Your Authentic Self: You’ll gain insights into your inherent worth and wisdom.
Integration: We’ll work on applying these insights to your daily life so you can experience meaningful change.
“Still uncertain? Amanda and Sammie share candid reflections on the subtle courage this work unlocks, available in our client success stories.”
WHY CHOOSE COMPASSIONATE INQUIRY
Dr. Gabor Maté reminds us: "We may not be responsible for the world that created our minds, but we can take responsibility for the mind with which we create our world." Through Compassionate Inquiry, you’ll gain the tools to:
Understand the root causes of emotional pain or trauma.
Reconnect with your inner wisdom and authenticity.
Make choices aligned with your true self.
Navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and clarity.
This approach isn’t about “fixing” you—it’s about rediscovering the power and wholeness that have been within you all along.
EXPERIENCE COMPASSION, CURIOSITY AND KINDNESS HERE.
Our 1:1 sessions are designed to help you embark on an experience of self-discovery. Whether you’re seeking relief from emotional pain or simply want to reconnect with your authentic self, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
Let’s work together to uncover what’s holding you back so you can step into a life of unapologetic authenticity.
Individual Sessions
Investment: $145.00 per session.
Payable on the day.
Frequency: We start with regular sessions to build a strong foundation, then gradually reduce frequency as you gain confidence in applying what we’ve learned. Our ultimate aim is for you to thrive independently, using our support only when life presents new challenges.
Flexibility: Flexible scheduling, including evenings and weekends. Both in-person and online sessions available.
Your Unapologetic Starter Pack
Investment: $650 ($130 per session)
This amount is paid in full.
Step boldly in your journey with the Unapologetic Starter Pack —
five personally tailored sessions designed to created the foundation for lasting, authentic change.
Together, we take a comprehensive dive into your unique needs, honoring your lived experience and supporting you to uncover the bold, authentic you that’s waiting to emerge.
CLIENT SUCCESS STORY
“I had my first Compassionate Inquiry session with Nic, and I honestly can’t put into words how powerful it was. I’ve never done anything like this before, but I walked away feeling more seen, heard, and understood than I have in a long time. Nic held such a safe, grounded space and helped me start connecting the dots in ways I didn’t expect. She’s incredibly intuitive and gentle, but also so insightful and supportive. I truly felt like she got me. If you’re considering working with her—do it. I can’t recommend her enough.”
— Sammie
Compassionate Inquiry FAQ’s
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Compassionate Inquiry is a trauma-informed, client-led therapeutic approach developed by Dr. Gabor Maté. It helps you gently uncover the emotional and physiological roots of stress, anxiety, and stuck patterns—combining mind–body connection, deep empathy, and curiosity.
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Unlike directive or solution-based models, Compassionate Inquiry is guided by your pace and needs. The process is non-judgmental and collaborative; you lead the exploration, and your practitioner acts as a supportive witness and gentle guide—not someone trying to "fix" you.
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It’s ideal for anyone wanting to break free from old emotional cycles, explore the origins of their struggles, or integrate body and mind for resilient healing. If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or are seeking understanding beyond surface-level coping, this is a safe starting point.
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Clients can experience greater self-awareness, release of unhelpful patterns, improved emotional regulation, and a deeper sense of compassion for themselves. Many notice less anxiety, clearer boundaries, and the ability to respond (not just react) to life’s challenges.
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Expect a conversational, gently guided exploration of what’s happening beneath the surface—using open-ended questions, mindfulness, and body awareness. Every emotion and insight is welcomed; you never have to censor or rush.
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No preparation required. Just bring yourself as you are—there is no pressure to have it “all together.” Some find it helpful to note reflections or questions between sessions, but this is optional.
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Yes. Every session is designed to be emotionally safe and empowering; we work sensitively with lived experiences, triggers, and nervous system responses to support authentic, gradual healing.
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Absolutely. Many clients integrate Compassionate Inquiry with coaching, yoga, meditation, or even EFT tapping. We’ll help you find the right blend that serves your unique journey.
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Book a free Bag Check intro chat for a relaxed conversation about whether Compassionate Inquiry is the best fit for you—or take our Find Your Path quiz to explore your options.
NOT SURE WHERE TO START?
This is part of Step 1 of the Unapologetic Toolkit — The Bag Check
Our Bag Check is a FREE Intro Chat to see if we’re the right vibe, and to assist in choosing the Therapeutic Modality that best suits you.
Through personalised one-on-one coaching sessions, we'll work together on an experience of self-discovery and lasting change. You already have the answers within you - my role is to help you uncover them. Together, we'll shatter self-limiting beliefs, cultivate emotional intelligence, and empower you to develop the mindset and strategies you need to thrive unapologetically in all areas of your life.
Whether you're navigating the corporate world, building your own empire, or simply craving more fulfilment and balance, this is your chance to invest fully in your growth and well-being. We'll focus on the goals that matter most to you, and I'll be your partner in thinking, supporting you every step of the way.
The path to your most vibrant, authentic self starts here. Take the first step by booking a free bag check to see how we might be able to work together. Let's co-create the life you were born to live!